Don’t be afraid…
Don’t be afraid of the opponent, of making a mistake, or of losing.
In spite of the looks, chess is an aggressive game, where you will have to pull out your sword, scream and run at your opponent, no matter who they are (just kidding).
On a serious note, that means you will have to be brave and attack, otherwise you won’t be able to win many games. As a result, sometimes you will make mistakes, and you will even lose games. You will become a very intimidating and annoying player, even for stronger people, if you always look for the forcing moves (checks, captures, threats) and you go straight for the throat! Never let a bad position or a stronger opponent discourage you, be optimistic, don’t resign and shoot straight. Learn from your mistakes if you don’t succeed.
But what to study?
Focus mostly on middle games and learning the basic endgames rather than openings. Those are important too, but mainly after a certain level. Of course, learn the opening principles, and pick one or two openings that you would like to play, learn the first couple of moves, the main plans, ideas, and be prepared against the common traps, but don’t spend most of your time on it.
Knowing how to evaluate, how to make a plan and make a decision, how to spot weaknesses, and how to promote a pawn in the endgame, etc., is much more important. Just imagine, you get the perfect position after the opening ends and the middle game starts, and you don’t know how to win the game. Yes, you had your opponent, but who won in the end? On the other hand, if you get a worse position after the opening, there is still a lot of chance and hope if you know middle games and endgames more than your opponent. You will be more successful this way.
One of the most important things to remember is, don’t learn everything at once! Instead of learning a little opening, a little middle game, a little endgame a day, you can decide to learn tactics in stages. For example, you can start with the Scotch opening, including learning lines, solving Scotch puzzles, you watch/read analyzed master games where the Scotch happened, you study typical Scotch middlegames, you play games where you try to play it yourself and later you analyze them.
This way, you make your learning time entertaining and more diverse, but not so overwhelming. Also, no one can offer magic recipes on how much time you need to spend on chess a day/week or on a certain topic, especially since everyone is different, and also because there will be days when you will have no time at all, but there will also be times when you have a couple of hours.
Use it, and try to be consistent. Finally, if you are looking for books to read, I would like to suggest Arthur Yusupov’s books, especially the “Build up your chess” series.
If you would like to get more personalized advice, please don’t hesitate to book a chess class with me.